2025 New Dating Trend. AI Romance Scam

How To Distinguish A Chatbot From A Real Person

  AI is changing the world of online dating. More and more dating sites resort to using AI chatbots for evil purposes. AI is widely used to set up computer-generated accounts. Chatbots are implemented by many sites to conduct all the communication with the real users. Having analyzed a variety of dating sites, we identified several trusted, high-quality dating platforms that hold their own and resist this modern money scam trend.

We know it for a fact that Seek4Match, AFFPasssion, SuperSexFinder and MyUkrLady consider using AI chatbots a big no-no. They stick to authentic genuine methods of attracting real people and banning scammers. We wholeheartedly recommend these platforms to all users who are looking for genuine connections without having to put their feelings and life savings at risk.

No matter what platform you choose to use here are

7 Tips That Will Help You To Identify A Chatbot.

Even though chatbots have become very smart and sophisticated lately, there are still quite a few proven and practical ways to tell who is who.

1. Bots don't tend to act like a real person in a non-standard situation. They don't have out-of-the-box thinking. Try throwing in some weird unexpected questions. If you hear a generic reply - most likely you're chatting with AI.

2. Check their sense of humor. Bots don't have it, if they have not been programmed to react to a specific joke. You can try a random joke test, like "What’s your favorite hobby that isn’t sleepwalking?"

3. Pay attention to the speed of their answers. Unlike real people, chatbots always reply quickly at any time of the day or night. Try to elicit a long answer (you may ask them to tell a funny story from their childhood) and notice how quickly you will get a reply. You may spot a red flag here.

4. Focus on personal details. AI can't know any personal details, so you may confuse a chatbot if you start asking questions like, "What is the main competitor of the company you work for?" "What happened at work today? "What do you feel when you engage fully into your hobby (name one of the hobbies they mentioned)?" "Why do you say your neighborhood is rural, can you describe it please?"

5. AI always uses grammatically perfect language and tends to be more formal than a real person. Pay attention to the style of language, misspelling, grammatical mistakes. If there are none of them - you have another red flag.

6. Try to suddenly change your own style of communication. Just for a short experiment you can get a bit too informal, a bit too weird or even a bit too rude (keep it moderate though) and see if the person you are chatting with becomes surprised, confused or irritated.

7. Try to evoke emotions. Generally chatbots are not capable of them. They can tell you sweet flirty words, they can tell you that they have strong feelings for you, etc. But they can't be emotional for real. If you tell them a highly emotive story (something that happened to you in the past or just today at work) AI would react unnaturally. You can't impress, sadden or ruin the mood of a chatbot. You can expect natural reaction only from a human being.